around the globe

solstice to solstice (2.13) :: BARE

2012-01-03T10:07:00.000-08:00

not a leaf in sight.

but everything else is cloaked
in delicate white.

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:: the girls and I wrote a haiku this week! ::

I joined a creative crew to do this fun Solstice project. This is not easy to put your creative thoughts out there....but its a fun practice & encourages me to process more! Join in if you'd like, and let me know if you do!!

: solstice to solstice ::

52 weeks focused on the seasons. each week one word will be shared that relates to the season (winter, spring, summer, or autumn) and each week we'll individually do something creative or focused representing/surrounding that word.

art comes in many forms. cooking, photography, poetry, paint, fiber, dance etc...

one word for the week.

13 words for each season.

52 weeks of personal creative/seasonal focus.

solstice to solstice (1.13) :: DARK

2011-12-26T08:24:00.000-08:00

dark
dreary, cold, bleak
coal soot, smoky horizon
dreams lost
cloudy night sky
pain but no voice
death without hope
despairing
falling, empty, silent
craving light, exposure
yearning for a flicker
and also, chocolate.

I am joining a small, creative crew to do this fun Solstice project. This is not easy to put your creative thoughts out there....but its a fun practice & encourages me to process more! Join in if you'd like!!

: solstice to solstice ::

art comes in many forms. cooking, photography, poetry, paint, fiber, dance etc...

one word for the week.

13 words for each season.

52 weeks of personal creative/seasonal focus.

Happy Birthday Jesus!!

2011-12-25T06:00:00.000-08:00

It's not about presents, or glowing lights on the tree, or even family or yummy food. And even though its hard not to get homesick (or family-sick), I truly appreciate these foreign-land Christmases, where we can quiet ourselves and focus on the birth of our Savior, without all the hubbub, and just remember the humility, the scandal, the provision, and the beauty! To remember the poor little family that gave birth in a dirty stable, and had to wrap their baby in cloth and place him in a feeding trough to sleep. Its amazing that 1 birth + 33 years = a life that has changed this planet more than anyone. Happy Birthday Jesus! We celebrate you! May we increase your fame on this earth!

Eden's first tooth....

2011-12-23T07:39:00.000-08:00

Right before Christmas, Eden's first tooth came out. It had been wiggly for weeks, and it hung on forever. Finally we had her wiggle it 5 minutes each night, so that it would loosen quicker. In the end, daddy finally yanked it out - without any fuss! Eden was beaming with excitement, even though she was bleeding a lot! She didn't care at all. She loves the hole in her mouth and sticking her tongue thru.... Her smile is so joyful!! She put the tooth under her pillow that night for the tooth fairy....but she/he forgot to come (we've been SO busy over here)!! We felt SO bad the next morning, that we had to distract her and sneak the tooth out & replace it with some $ and a special note. Maybe the tooth fairy was operating on another time zone?? She had to fly a looooong way!? Eden didn't care one bit. :)

december festivities

2011-12-22T06:53:00.000-08:00

We made a Christmas movie this year - these 7 kids wrote the script, painted scenery, created costumes, and acted superbly! We hosted a "premier" with little snacks, so all the parents could enjoy the end-product! It was really great!

We've played in the snow - even though the temps hover right around zero during the day. The kids are just now getting used to the long johns, the layering, the gloves & scarves and ear muffs too. Its really beautiful after a snowfall - so white and crisp and fresh. We'd love another fresh layer so we can maybe take the girls sledding. C'mon SNOW!!

Lots of holiday baking happening around her too ~ I even made some famous cinnamon rolls to share with our neighbors. I think they love me more now.

We inherited a puppy last week. Our business partners had to return to the States last minute, so we are taking care of their little puppy, Oreo. She's not house trained, so we have to take her out 5x a day, and also clean her feet every time we come back inside. She still has accidents, which are not fun. Nor is her constant high-pitched barking. Asia has been very responsible to take Oreo out for her potty breaks, and its incredible to see her rise to the occasion. We aren't going to keep her much longer, only because we don't know when our partners will return, and puppies in apartments during the winter is insane. The girls are loving her though!!

Someday, we will have a puppy for reals. :)

making a Jesse tree

2011-12-10T07:08:00.000-08:00

Even though it is hard to be away from loved ones over special holidays, we have really tried to embrace this cross-cultural lifestyle, and make special traditions as our little clan in this place. I am thankful that we are removed from the Christmas hype and commercialism in America, and that we can breathe fresh meaning into the holiday, on this side of the globe....even sharing it with others who have never known the reason for the season. :)

This year - I am attempting to make a Jesse Tree, with ornaments out of felt. It has been pretty therapeutic for me too, sitting and stitching each tiny piece together by hand. I just searched online for ideas, and went for it! There are about 25-29 possible ornaments that I could make...so we will see how it all turns out. The girls are really enjoying the family time at night, lighting a candle, reading and talking about each ornament, and placing them on the tree. I've only made 10 ornaments so far...but its really fun. I love having a creative outlet = it helps me to decompress, relax and fills me up too!

Here are the few that I have made so far:

Creation & the Fall

Noah & Abram

Sarah & Isaac

Jacob & JosephLight & Moses
Isn't this so fun? hehehe.

blogging is hard for me

2011-12-09T08:15:00.000-08:00

I'm not a great writer...but really, I'm OK with it. And I am not a "current blogger" posting regularly and in a timely fashion. But neither of those are the real reasons for this blog allowing cobwebs to form and the lack of communication on here. I LOVE to communicate and stay connected to family & friends - far and wide. But right now, I am at a loss for what to write - being such a perfectionist, and not knowing what approach to take: light & fluffy, with some humor thrown in? Solemn & reflective? Mocking & sarcastic with a hint of depth? Add in some emotional family events, cultural stress, and a lot of unknowns....it just makes it hard for this momma to figure out what to say. I want to make sure I communicate things clearly, and share my heart too.

The only accurate thing that I can share right now is that our lives are in His hands. We can't control the circumstances, but He is trustworthy. I want to be honest on here, and share the moments when we are content AND the flip side when life feels out of control. Being so far from family also takes its tolls. In any given day, I both love+hate life in this Central Asian metropolis. It's true. :)

I love that life is simple out here. I love cooking from scratch, and being reminded that I don't need more things to make me happy. I love the big, fresh markets and getting out for my daily needs. I love interacting with my neighbors, and feeling part of this Asian community. I love seeing the older generations socialize, exercise, and be involved in raising their grandchild. I love that my kids are getting a different world-view, and growing up in a foreign culture. I love the parks (in summer) and finding a patch of grass in the middle of some concrete. ....but even that was a little sarcastic, hinting at my underlying frustration.

I am tired of language learning. Even after 6 years, I am not fluent or completely comfortable in this culture. I am tired of side-stepping around gross loogies spit onto the street, or to be breathing in smoke fumes in the taxi. Stinky tofu smells wafting into my nostrils make me want to vomit. I am tired of crusty, stiff, stretched-out clothes, hung on my indoor rack. I feel so lonely for deep conversations, a bosom friend, or the freedom of driving a car. And that is barely scratching the surface. It may not help that winter has officially come, and we are headed into 4-5 months of freezing cold weather that brings on a dreary feeling that zaps my joy.

Its really hard to keep the right perspective when people do things that defy my own reason, or break my hygiene comfort-ability. I have a certain patience threshold, and most days I feel like I live right at the tipping point. Maybe this threshold applies to my joy, my ability to have grace, and my ability to love....and is a good indicator that I need to rely more on the One who gives me a higher threshold. He is the ultimate patient One, grace-giver, joy-filler-upper, love-abounder. :) And this is the part of me that wants to justify and share the right things, since I know in my heart what is right and how I "should" respond when I am living fully aligned with Him. Just know that my heart longs to see this place with the right eyes, and be more fully able to love and not judge. But I am weak. So this is good for me to share & vent my frustrations so that you know I struggle and that life is not always peachy.

Eventually, I want to catch up on this blog - and fill in the gaps (mostly for myself), but for now I am going to attempt some current goings-on, so that I don't get overwhelmed and forget it altogether. :) The last few months have been a doozie - so I may not update those for awhile. I am thankful for TODAY. Today I am staying cozy indoors, recovering from a nasty cold-bug, and I might make these granola bars......and sewing advent ornaments for our Jesse tree.

Armenia clan : part 2

2011-09-05T07:08:00.000-07:00

It was only 8 jam-packed days of both McNabb clans together - but we got to show them some of the best parts of our life out here. One afternoon we piled 4 families (11 kids!) into our delivery vehicles and drove about 15 minutes outside the city into the hills. A few months ago we stumbled upon this random dirt road - and followed it just for fun. It has become a special "quick getaway spot" when we were needing a break from city life.

We drove everyone out to the spot - brought pizza, salad and marshmallows. We hiked the dusty hillsides, and saw horses and a huge flock of sheep. We built a bonfire and just enjoyed this place we call home. The kids had great fun running free, and even Madi got to take a little walk to follow some sheep. She was so excited. I just adore this little one!!

It was great to share another side of our life with them - the friends we have made out here, and some of the ways we try to recharge. I think they are getting a pretty accurate taste of what life is like out here - and all the beauty, joys, challenges and dirt too. At least we hope so!!

(Yes it was dirty and poop was everywhere, but we loved it.)

Thankful for
The chance to be together
An amazing sunset over the hills
Being an auntie to these precious girls
Flocks of sheep that live in this desert place
Kids running free
Deep friendship

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(more to come)

visitors from Armenia!!! (or Ohio, Kentucky, DC, Santa Cruz? they aren't sure!)

2011-09-03T02:05:00.000-07:00

Just in case you don't know where ARMENIA might be - its the small yellow country on the map below, bottom left - south of Georgia, and north of Iran. Its in the Central Caucasus Mountains, where Mt. Ararat is located. We hear it's beautiful (but we might just need to go there ourselves to make sure)!! Our family is stationed there for the next 2 years, serving with US Aid - and they are taking some vacation time to come here! Wahoo!!

This is a dream come true: to have Justin's brother, Krissy & the girls come to China to visit! We've been pinching ourselves to make sure this is REAL - but here they are!! Such a collision of two worlds! They have 2 precious little girls: Jordan (4yrs old) and Madi (1yr old) - and they are so incredible and full of life! I love getting to be an auntie in real life! We cherish this time with them - as life can move along so fast, and we are all in such different places & careers. Its hard to predict when we will all be together again...so this is a gift! (and it just so happens to be right around my birthday, so I consider it a birthday gift! thanks guys!)

We only had 8 full days ~ but we filled it with lots of adventure and sweet times together as a fam! We made homemade noodles called Laghman (a Uyghur style spicy noodle dish), ate lots with chopsticks, and visited our favorite restaurants - so they could sample our cultural cuisine!

We took them on the local bus - though I wish they could have experienced riding a bus during rush hour - being squeezed into a bus without any space to move is quite the cultural experience. Oh well....next visit, right??

And we gave them the grand tour of all things ICE CREAM!! This picture is outside our tiny shop downtown - where it all began almost 3 years ago! The cousins had fun choosing their favorite flavors of ice cream too!

Most days we just went to a nearby park and let the kids run free. It was so wonderful for the cousins to be together again....and for ME to become Jordan & Madi's best friend (again). I love getting to love on my nieces - for 8 days straight!

more to come....

new theater in town!

2011-08-28T07:12:00.000-07:00

This week - we found out about a new Movie Theater in town, with movies in English! This is a huge novelty for us, since the girls have only been to a theater once before in America. We jumped at the chance to take them to see Cars II in 3D. Unfortunately, Justin was out of town - so I joined some friends who were also going. It turned out to be 4 families (6 adults & 10 kids!). The girls LOVED the movie, and even got used to the big black glasses they had to wear. Just look at these plush seats! I felt like I was transported to another country. I even brought popcorn & candy for snacks....

After the movie was over - we went to catch a taxi, but it was pouring rain. I forgot to bring any sort of jacket for the girls, let alone an umbrella!! Needless to say, we got drenched to the core. AND the girls were wearing very summery clothing - stink!! We wandered around trying to flag down a taxi, looking for a bus that would take us closer to home....but nothing!! I felt so terrible with three wet girls out in the freezing cold rain, without anything to keep us dry. We finally found a little convenient store and I bought the girls their first snickers bar ever, and a dinky purple umbrella to keep us from getting more wet. Thankfully their attitudes weren't too stinky, but I did have to help Eden pee in a corner while holding her over a puddle. Asia was awesome as she shielded her with the umbrella! It was an adventure.

We made it home about 1 hour later! We all got warm & toasty by drinking hot cocoa & wearing jammies. It was a day we will remember forever. Too bad dad missed it. :)

Thankfulness
561. Salvation is a gift of grace
562. for my local friend buying me herbal Chinese medicine
563. Jenny Espe is medicine for my soul
564. A new movie theater in U-town
565. mother/daughter bonding in the rain
566. a rainy Saturday
567. hot chocolate and imported marshmallows
568. watching "Family Wipeout" together

birthday backpacking with buddies

2011-08-21T22:34:00.000-07:00

My forever birthday wish is to go camping.
I don't need presents ever again. I will always want to take the family camping...somewhere new, adventurous, fresh. And this year, we decided to try backpacking! Even the girls carried some gear! We were so proud of them - and its incredible to see how their confidence grew as they were able to conquer something HARD. That was a gift too. Here they are...ready to go to the bus station....

It was a 2+ hour bus ride up to the mountains: this time we went to a different valley called Dong Bai Yang Gou. The bus dropped us off at the bottom, and we took a trolly car up to the trail-head. Notice that we have some brave friends who joined the adventure! Everything is better with friends. :)

As we began hiking, we realized the trail was really steep -- almost straight up, on rocky, dusty dirt. We all had heavy packs on (with tents, sleeping bags, mats, food, water, etc) so it was strenuous for the adults too. The kids were such troopers: we hiked for a bit, had the dad's run ahead with gear, and come back to hold hands and get the kids up the steep trail one-by-one. When we started out, they were all smiles:

It was a challenging hike, to say the least. Here is the slope & terrain (below), even though its hard to see completely. At one point, we were passed by a team of Kazakh shepherds on horses...which was funny! Next time we might need to hire pack mules!!

Once we got over the ridge and into the valley - the kids were loving it! There was a beautiful little stream running through the area, with rocks and boulders scattered about. We had to set up camp before the sun went down and it got chilly....so the kids were sent off to gather firewood. We set up our new 4-person tent, right next to the river. It was the only "flat space" big enough, without a lot of manure. Oh - I forgot to mention that this valley was obviously well-used by shepherds and their huge flocks (ahem - smelly!) so we had to watch our steps. :) But just to be surrounded by green and trickling water....we were grateful!

(I had to include this picture - you will know why later)

(and a special THANK YOU to our wonderful friends who brought this tent over for us! We love it, and it fits our family perfectly!)
That night we made ramen noodles and mini-chicken hot dogs over the fire. Simple is best! Later we roasted imported marshmallows with chocolate & Chinese crackers - the best s'mores combo we can muster! The kids don't know any different!

We finally climbed into our tents and sleeping bags as the fire died down, trying our best to get warm as the river flowed so loud right near our heads. **Now at this point in the trip - I have to admit that it got tough. Justin and I hardly slept all night, between being freezing cold, rolling off our mats on the sloped hillside, or the rushing river noise that made us both have scary dreams of floating down the river in the middle of the night. My hips weren't happy sleeping on the hard ground, and I ended up getting a migraine to boot. Speaking of "boots": both Justin and I left our shoes outside the tent that night, because they were caked with stinky manure. Around 5:30am, we both finally opened our eyes to welcome a new day....only to find that Justin's nice hiking/winter boots had been stolen. It seems that a shepherd must have needed them more than we did. It could have been worse though: my flea market hiking shoes were still there! As we were laying there in the wee hours of the morning, we were mad - wondering how we would ever make it out of the valley with huge packs, steep rocky trails, and a strong husband without shoes. Plus - my back was not cooperating, nor was my migraine. It was a bleak few hours.

We finally got up to face the day. I dismally made oatmeal & hot chocolate over the fire. Then we remembered a small perplexing detail: Once we hiked over the ridge (the day before) we noticed some old abandoned shoes left on the hillside. They must be the shepherds' old shoes, after they steal from unknowing campers!! It was all making sense. Sad though. Goodbye nice winter boots: we hope you take good care of Mr. Shepherd guy, and bring him warmth this winter. We finally "let go" of our frustrations, and tried to smile & laugh at our predicament. Grace.

We ended up fashioning those old abandoned shoes into something that would work for Justin's feet. He cut a huge slit in the heel so his feet could fit into them (2 sizes too small), and used tent rope to lace them and tie them onto his ankles. He was MacGyver for sure. I wish we had brought some duct tape! He had the best attitude too. I sure love him.

After the stolen shoes - we realized we couldn't manage the return hike along that same steep slope. The dad's ventured off to find a new trail ~ seeing if we could hike down along the river with 6 kiddos + gear. They were super excited to spy out the land. :)

The rest of us stayed behind to play in the river, look for bugs, climb, and explore. It was so relaxing! I loved being able to let the girls run around unhindered, without having to worry. My migraine finally faded a bit, which was great - since I would need to hike soon. PTL!

a shepherd leading his flock to pasture: he didn't have our shoes on. :)

The boys came back in the afternoon with good news: we could attempt the river route, after they fortified the trail with extra river rocks & logs. They loved getting to forge a trail and "fortify" something. We slowly packed up camp, ate all the food we could (so we didn't have to carry it) and began our hike back to civilization. The kids were like little goats along the trail, hopping off rocks and bounding along. For the most part, they carried their own things!! It was incredible. Here we are, fully loaded up and ready to hike!

We made it! A little bit dirty, missing our beds, one scratched tummy (see Sydney), minus one pair of shoes, but fully refreshed and recharged by getting out in nature!! It does wonders for the soul.

amazing girlies

2011-08-11T08:41:00.000-07:00

three girls under the grapevines

my green smoothie girl

learning to read

also learning to read - www.starfall.com (while in costume!)

my resident bookworm ~ excited about a borrowed book!

giving her Chinese Chia Pet a haircut

this is Eden's cookbook that she is making. I love her shopping list. LOVE IT.

...and I am so blessed by these amazing girlies!

anniversary trip...

2011-08-07T08:09:00.000-07:00

We got on a bus bound for the mountains without a care in the world. Only 38 kuai ($4.50)!

We stayed at a wonderful friends' mountain retreat ~ inside this small townhome community. We were right at the foot of the NanShan mountains!

We ate outside, went hiking and played with the little ones. It was so relaxing and wonderful. Here are the 2 little Uyghur girls that I got to spend some time with up there. They are 1 & 3 years old ~ such little beauties!

We even made a huge American breakfast for the staff on our 2nd day. So funny - that while on a short vacation, we still cooked and played with kids! For some strange reason, it was still very restful and energizing. It was nice to give our minds a break! I am so thankful for this chance to get out of city with my love, and have time to reflect and reminisce and dream. We needed it!!

10 years with my love!

2011-08-04T20:52:00.000-07:00

TEN years!! wahoo!!

‎9 homes + 8 countries + 7 cars & 7 days of childbirth + 3 beautiful girls + 4 jobs + 2 yrs of language study & tutoring + 46 flights + 2 broken bones + 15 flavors of Ice Cream + 1 scary ethnic riot = 10 years of being married to the love of my life! Happy Anniversary to us!

Let the adventure continue...

Thanks to our wonderful friends out here - we got to leave the girls at home, and take off for 3 whole days + 2 nights away! It was so relaxing & refreshing. Every year keeps getting better.....I feel so blessed.

July delights

2011-07-31T20:38:00.000-07:00

Our summers are sizzling hot, since we live in the desert! But we also live in a massive Chinese city - surrounded by concrete. Here are some glimpses of Summer life in our little corner of the globe:

Eden : sitting on our deck (8th floor) eating a nectarine

We have a tiny blow up pool that fits nicely on the deck - the girls love carrying buckets from the bathroom to fill it up. It takes forever, but it keeps us cool!! We also love to eat lunch on the deck in our bathing suits.

Asia : playing babies with our sweet Uyghur friend

We have known little Linda since she was born - her parents are amazing friends of ours, and they help run a yummy restaurant in our city! She can speak English, Uyghur, Chinese and some Spanish too!

Hands on Pottery class @ the local bookstore!

Only 13 kuai per project!! ($2.03)

We found out about this nifty art class downtown - the girls love it! This sweet Chinese lady helps teach the kids how to spin on the pottery wheel, among many other art projects too! We are hooked.

Sydney painting some kitties

Birthday banner wishes for a special Jamma!!

We miss you Jamma ~ and we hope you had a lovely birthday!!

Eden & sweet buddy playing at the park

Sydney being silly with her best buddy & some large watermelons

happy Summer to you all!

turtle buddies

2011-07-21T11:33:00.000-07:00

We went to the fish market today in hopes of finding some tadpoles (to observe them grow into frogs!), but instead we came home with 3 baby turtles! Yes, I am a sucker for having pets in our house - I know they require work, but they are so educational! I have no idea how long they will last....

...but three little girls were very excited to add some turtles to our clan. Asia chose out three special blue rocks, Sydney is holding the turtle food, and Eden is holding the 3 baby turtles. Let's pray they survive.**

Here are the turtles at the Pet Shop area before we took them home : in a tiny tank climbing all over each other. This can't be sanitary. I am pretty sure turtles carry diseases too, right? They are so cute though.

all three at home getting their first soak & bath & scrub by the mom.

this is Mary.

this is Henry, sitting on a piece of cabbage.

Mary, swimming by the filter. She loves the bubbles.

all three together : Mary, Henry & BB. BB stands for "blue back" and he/she is quite camera shy. BB is an incredible swimmer though.

Eden loves to watch her turtle. This is where we got the idea to try "planking"

such fun turtle buddies.

Mary loves to dive down deep.

**Henry died a few weeks later. He was too little and definitely not thriving. He must have come home already sick. We replaced him with Joseph, who also died soon after. Now we just have Mary & BB - who are doing ok. I wish it weren't so hard to keep animals alive out here. The girls are still enjoying them, even with two dying. Mom is not really enjoying cleaning the tank though. All for the love of animals, and JOY of our kids!! :)

July 4th highlights

2011-07-04T10:51:00.000-07:00

1. Mixing business with pleasure : all three Ice Mountain Creamery families celebrating America with a patriotic BBQ and water gun wars.

What could be better?

2. Sisters protecting each other : and that little Santa Cruz shirt has lasted thru 3 kids!

3. My husband is so great.

4. Grilled mushroom burger : seriously better than beef.

5. Homemade Root Beer floats : topped with IMC ice cream, of course! This was a special treat! Making root beer isn't easy!

6. Brave Sydney petting an iguana : she's incredible.

Happy fourth of July to all!!

yurting 2011 ~ in pictures

2011-07-02T09:36:00.000-07:00

Time to get out of the city and explore the Tian Shan mountains!

But first, a quick roadside stop for some delicious Xinjiang melons.

Then we must get to know our neighbors.

...And take a hike up the mountainside....frolicking in nature!

These girls are like goats bounding up the mountain.

Sydney was working on her bouldering skills, while mom & dad held their breath. She made it.

Asia finds beauty wherever she goes.

A little family photo by the tiny waterfall. Awww....precious.

...and Justin makes a friend. Even though he isn't smiling, he's very happy.

Kebabs & baked potatoes for dinner!

Staying warm inside the yurt by the tiny fire/stove.

It rained for about 12 hours straight!!

sleeping bag silliness

three girls in the rain

The next morning - after a cozy nights' sleep!

Sydney holding a worm for the first time ever.

Bless you Kazakh friends for your wonderful hospitality and the use of your humble abode.

we love yurts!

funny China

2011-06-30T09:22:00.000-07:00

Found this at one of our favorite outdoor restaurants the other night.

Such a paradox.

summer haircuts

2011-06-26T09:10:00.000-07:00

This past weekend - we decided to cut the girls hairs!! Its been getting hotter by the day which makes it more practical to go short! We are tempted to make this an annual tradition, though only time will tell. It sure takes me a long time to get it cut straight...but they love coming into Mommy's Salon. Asia's hair was so long....but she was excited for a big change! She doesn't like brushing, washing or putting anything into her hair - so short is easy & great for her!!

during her professional hair cut

the giddy face AFTER her haircut!

I didn't get any "before" picts of Eden - she was sleepy.

the next day - ready for the hot weather!!

Sydney's turn!!

can she get any cuter?

our dad is so neat!

2011-06-20T08:49:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day!!

: homemade breakfast, spiffy cards & poems, all the love we can muster! :

(let me tell you, this breakfast takes time & effort - and lots of LOVE!)

You are the best, Dad!!

eight is great.

2011-06-18T08:33:00.000-07:00

Asia is EIGHT!! - such a beautiful beacon of joy!! This amazing little lady rises with the sun and is full of radiance. She is most giddy when she is handed a new book, or when she can play with her closest friends. She loves to work with knitting or crochet needles & yarn, and she loves to create plays and 'shows' with her sisters. She is spunky, peaceful, faithful, sacrificial, intentional, precise, sensitive: just incredible! She is a wonderful sister, friend, daughter & cousin ~ and yet it's hard to believe she is old enough to write in cursive loops, compute fractions, make her own breakfast or knit better than me! I try my best to remember her in the moment, and not let these years pass by without reflection. She has changed my world in so many ways, forever making me a better person, and sharpening me beyond imagination.

On her birthday morning, she awoke to lots of EIGHTS hung on the window, a pile of gifts, and pancakes with peanut butter, syrup and glowing candles. She was bursting with excitement for this big day.

I still can't believe eight years have gone by! It doesn't seem that long ago that she was born on Thurber Lane, while poppa Joe played his guitar peacefully outside the room and both of my mom's & sister Kris prayed for her, and for ME! Justin was my rock. Asia was welcomed into our lives with such awe and amazement ~ a treasure to behold. It's funny how we can block out the pain and the struggle of giving birth - but only remember the beauty and the quiet and the stillness of that moment...when time seems to stand still, and you are enveloped with more love than you can imagine. Well, Asia Nicole taught us what it means to love outside of yourself. Of course, we are still learning this, but it all began eight years ago.

I pray that you will bring peace to this world, sweet Asia - You belong to Him alone! May your radiance shine brightly for others, and may your life be lived in response to His love for you. You are a treasure to me, and you bring such delight. You are so loved!!

We had fun celebrating her day by driving to this fun indoor pool with many of her closest friends. She even braved the water slide for the first time today! She is becoming quite a skilled swimmer - becoming more daring too! We enjoyed cupcakes with her buddies, and a silly bus ride home too.

She LOVES her new American Girl doll : Kaya! She has an intense love for all things Native American, and for the history and books that open this world up to her. It's a joy to watch. I love that she is eager to learn & grow.

You are a pure light in my life, Asia Nicole.
We love you!

Thankful for:

eight amazing years of life : such a gift

she belongs to Jesus

her insights into problems in the world

bright sparkling eyes

her cartwheels in the house

her attention to beauty and detail

her concerned face while she is reading a new book

how she looks forward to things with so much intensity

when she sits to read in the early morning, so quiet and focused

she and I are so much alike, its scary

her sensitive spirit and love for others

her growing independence and trustworthiness

her imaginative play

her giddy laughter

when she holds Sydney's hand when we are walking around town

her fervent love for mango tea with honey

baking with her

her brilliance

birthday prep = so much fun!!

2011-06-17T07:58:00.000-07:00

Another summer celebration in our clan, LIFE to be enjoyed, and more desserts to be created! Asia will be EIGHT tomorrow so we are making chocolate cupcakes! She wants some sort of 'water theme' since we are going to the pool for her BIG day. I have a few hours to ponder, decide and make icing!! She can practically make her own cake nowadays - but its always fun to bake together. Its hard to believe she will be eight. She's an amazing little lady!!

June fun.... part 1

2011-06-16T07:25:00.000-07:00

It's been a jam-packed month of visitors, finishing up our science co-op, being outside more in the great weather, and lots of reasons to celebrate. Here's a smattering of pictures to prove it!!

All three gals sipping pearl milk teas after a great week of home school

Climbing Sydney (4 1/2) wearing my old dress that my aunt Nancy made me when I was 5.

Three friends exercising, hard!

Learning about air and pressure with balloons. So much fun!

My first carrot cake with cream cheese frosting. I need to make this more!!

Reunion with great friends!! Living out here creates an intense bond!!

Eating downtown with great pals (such great kids!)

Sydney makes friends everywhere we go!

....and more to come!!

2 years of ice cream!!

2011-06-01T03:06:00.000-07:00

Two years ago today, our little ice cream shop opened ~ a great way to celebrate the June 1st Children's Day too! We brought all the kids down for a treat, and hung out with our employees a bit too. It has been an exciting two years of growth and changes in this massive Asian city! We are amazed to see more people actually recognize our name and know of our quality too!

Year #2 has brought some incredible growth as we expanded our production & delivery, and turned the little shop into a sit-down area, with extreme-sports being shown on a TV on the wall and fun music too! We even have longer hours in the summer while the sun is still awake - so please come and enjoy a sundae or double scoop!! Happy Anniversary to us!!

Summer water dilemmas... again.

2011-05-31T02:41:00.000-07:00

I have written about this lovely topic before, but the saga continues. I am sorry to say that I am not laughing about it this week. We have been living in our apartment for over 3 years now - and we are quite UNimpressed by the maintenance of our building. We have been without water pressure for about 7 days now, which is long enough to make this momma go raving mad. I don't think that is an understatement either. The water sporadically comes on in the late evenings (after 11:00pm) but only enough to give a trickle of cold water. My incredible husband takes the brunt of my frustration, AND he finagles/argues/reasons with the apartment maintenance guys to have them come FIX our dilemma. It is no easy venture. My "angry Chinese" vocabulary isn't very sensitive or helpful!!

Anyhow - all that to preface these cute picts of the girls taking bucket showers in the kitchen. Maybe I just need to lighten up and enjoy the simple pleasures these "dilemmas" bring about? Someone please help me see the humor and joy in these moments!! (besides my cute kids!)

p.s. Cold trickle showers aren't that bad when its 90 degrees outside.

sprouts.

2011-05-31T02:30:00.000-07:00

One of my last Xmas presents was a special hemp-bag for growing my own sprouts! I LOVE IT, and I just wanted to show Kris proof that we are putting this bag to good use! Thank you so much sister!

My only complaint: the sprouts don't grow quick enough!! We are always eager to use them, and it takes about 5 days to grow another crop. We have also been sprouting lentils, garbanzos, and playing with other legumes/seeds as well. This is the best summer meal for a hot desert-y day!

Here's MY salad, sans tomatoes of course! (xīhóngshì = 西红柿)

happy birthday C!!

2011-05-24T02:16:00.000-07:00

We took a good friend out for her birthday to a new restaurant that features Hong Kong food! I am not completely sure of the differences, but it was yummy! Our sweet friend ordered lots of new things for us to sample; things we might not have ordered if she wasn't there! Its great to have connections! I really loved the fish and noodles.

She is such a wonderful friend ~ and we are glad to be getting to know her better since she works with us as well. She would love to travel someday, and continue her schooling/education abroad. We are excited for her as she grows and figures out her passions in life. :)

...and one more picture: Asia eating rice with chopsticks!!
< pure skill >

an afternoon stroll...

2011-05-15T06:45:00.000-07:00

On a lazy Sunday we decided to venture outside and take the girls for a stroll thru The People's Park ~ which was teeming with people! I guess this city is teeming, no matter where you go - but its amazing how many people are out and about, filling walkways and benches throughout this huge park! We ate at a little cafe near the park, and brought the kids bikes/scooters too. The weather was perfect!

Everything is in full bloom - colorful and vibrant and smelling sweet. The girls are getting better at weaving through the sea of people along the pathways, as we stroll along behind them. I love watching them navigate and choose their way.

It's so nice to get out as a family.

Life is good!

birthday girl!! #SIX!

2011-05-14T03:19:00.000-07:00

Eden is SIX!!! - another unbelievable moment for this momma! She has been counting down the days for over 3 months! This amazing little girl is so full of life and eager to celebrate! She is a bright ray of sunshine in our lives....busting through clouds and bringing absolute cheer. She delights in simple things and observes with quiet intensity. Her beautiful strength shows in her quiet, and in her spunk. She is a sweet friend, silly and yet such a servant.
She woke to lots of sixes taped up on our birthday window, a vase of flowers just for her, and presents wrapped up so lovely. She could hardly wait. She patiently waited for each Skype phone call, each present waiting for its giver to be present. She was overjoyed with each gift - quietly, yet joyously opening the paper with care. Her eyes bright and sparkling with curiosity, so much wonder in her heart. She is such a delight, always easy-going, sensitive and full of questions too. She loves her presents, by the way!

We celebrated at the park with a canopy and little friends. It was a magical tea party with long flowing dresses and baby-dolls and crowns and dizzy-twirling and tea cups.

Eden Sofia was born after much anticipation, over 48 hours of laboring and working....though I don't remember being overly tired (we forget so easily!). Her bluish face scrunched up with wrinkles, feeling ever-so-grateful for a midwife who clipped her cord so fast. It really does feel like yesterday. She loves to hear her birth story retold again and again: the miracle of her life! Even Asia seems to remember kissing her head softly, and the excitement of welcoming a baby sister. They are such wonderful gifts.

Thankful for:
six amazing years of life
her deep questions, always probing deeper
her dimpled cheek
the freckles emerging on the bridge of her nose
bright blue eyes that dance & sparkle
the way she tackles numbers with such ease
she doesn't mind dirt
hearing her read new books to Sydney
her willingness to try new things
how she clams up with an audience
how she walks on my back
her creativity and imagination
her constant laughter
how she loves to eat breakfast (2 times)
her fervent love for spinach

when she helps me in the kitchen
her purity

You are a treasure sweet Eden, radiant light, a miracle in our lives - we love you so!!

Oh...I almost forgot her sleepover too! ...with her sweet friend Amina!
(with not much sleeping going on!)

birthday excitement....

2011-05-13T02:54:00.000-07:00

This week we are preparing for a lovely birthday party for our soon-to-be SIX year old! In keeping with tradition, the birthday girl gets to help make her own cake, and lick all beaters too. I am so glad these girls love to help! They are each getting so skilled in measuring, mixing and even washing dishes!

For Eden's birthday party - we are going to a park for a special tea party with 7 of her friends. I decided to try something new and make "cake-pops" which are basically cake shaped into a ball, poked onto a stick, and dipped in chocolate! They taste like a truffle on a stick!! I searched online for directions - and followed Bakerella's website. It was definitely a labor of love (since we don't have packaged cake mixes or frosting in a can) - and a fun learning experience! Eden even shared the chocolate-cake-beaters!!

Here we are dipping the frozen pops into the melted chocolate...and adding sprinkles!
It was quite a process!

The finished masterpieces!

My favorite one!

I think she is giddy with anticipation....

Only one more sleep (not so) little one!!
We love you so!

The bus ride home.

2011-05-10T10:05:00.000-07:00

We opted to take the BUS on our way home from Korla. We figured it would be faster and easier than our last trip! ....which had its pro's and cons too! But you never know in until you try! ...and this was our first time ever taking a BIG travel bus in China as a family!

Here's how we travel : light!!

Sydney loved the little snack boxes that were provided - and she tried everything! Even the unknown meat that was shrink wrapped in spicy oil. She is one brave chica. Her favorite was the dried Hawthorne fruit snacks.

Here is the smelliest, stenchiest, most disgusting bathroom stop ever. And since we have three little girls, guess which parent gets to spend the most time in this lovely place? Bring your own toilet paper, of course!! Fun!! Oh...I am excited to get home.

Bus trip Pro's:
we didn't break down on the highway in the middle of the desert.
the bus was on time!
I was guaranteed my own seat!

Bus trip Con's:
the smell of gas fumes gave me a headache
the AC didn't work, and you can't roll down the windows
we only had 1 main bathroom stop
the Chinese movies were loud, obnoxious and not for kids

Note to self: hiring a driver is the best option! It gives the most flexibility and is often cheaper too. But you never know until you TRY!

Korla life

2011-05-09T08:36:00.000-07:00

Korla is a beautiful city!! It is very clean and has lots of open parks and trees! After living in a massive city for 5+ years, Korla felt small & quaint, and the people very friendly & kind. There is a river that flows through the city most of the year - keeping the city abundantly green and fertile. There are lots of farmlands surrounding the area too, the most famous crop being the Korla Pears - they are as sweet as honey! It also attracts lots of migratory birds - including the famous Korla swans!! So amazing! I had no idea that swans would be attracted to this little desert city in the middle of nowhere. Korla is also home to a huge operational center for PetroChina - oil digging!

Here is the view from where we stayed:

Our first night in Korla we went to the park since we'd been cooped up in a car for waaay too long. The kids had fun running free and meeting new friends. Then we were off to find a good restaurant for dinner!

We ate a typical meal of Uyghur noodles and mutton kebabs. YUM!! But first you must wash your hands outside in this nifty water tank/fountain.

Our friends have four kids - ages 5, 4, 2 & 10 months! ...and they are so beautiful!
This is their 1st daughter - two years old, eating right off the skewer!!

Here is Eden (below) with their oldest son (5 yrs old):

Five kids (out of 7 total) all lined up by this bright blue gate.

I couldn't resist.

Here we are (on Mother's Day) on our way to the river. We found this entrance to an old mosque and couldn't resist this picture either. I love the intricate painting, and incredible stone-work and the old archways. It is good to be in this place!

The girls were so excited to see the river - even though the river-bed was pretty much dry. The river has been dammed up for construction. It seems like there is always some sort of building project going on everywhere in China! Even so, the girls couldn't wait to explore the river bed. They are off...in chronological order....A....E....& S bringing up the rear.

Peering over the rail...wanting to somehow get down there!!

Daddy loves some adventure too.

More picts with our sweet friends:

Asia, being a wonderful big sister & helper all weekend long!

Not everyone is paying attention, and three are missing....but its our best group picture!

Thank you sweet friends for the wonderful visit, and for being so patient with us! It took us five years to finally come and visit, but we so LOVE you and your amazing family!! Thanks for sharing your home, your delicious food, your beautiful city and your hearts! We are some of your biggest fans!!

May "vacation" to Korla!

2011-05-06T10:40:00.000-07:00

We've been invited to visit some friends in Korla for the past five years....and we are finally taking this opportunity to GO! Planning a road trip in this area of the globe is a bit different than what you might expect. Actually, you probably shouldn't "expect" anything! We booked tickets on the bus - and set out at 7:30am hoping to arrive 6 hours later!

We couldn't catch a taxi to the bus station - so we hopped in a "black taxi" (an unofficial civilian taxi) and he just-so happened to have the day free. He offered to drive us all the way to Korla in his personal car! His price was cheaper than our reserved tickets - so we made a quick change of plans. He was such a nice guy too! ....but we had no idea of the adventures that were to come! The nice thing about having your own driver is that you can stop for snacks, take potty breaks, and see more of the desert if we want to explore! We can roll the windows down...and enjoy the hot breeze. Our first stop was to refuel at a roadside station, which was more like a construction zone.

We bought some snacks for the road...

...and got some of the wiggles out!

Most of the drive was flat desert or this amazing rock/mountainous roads!

Right as we got out of the mountains our driver began driving kinda strange. He would accelerate, and then coast for awhile. We weren't sure if he was trying to save gas or something. Then all of a sudden he pulls over.... his car was overheating!

We were basically stranded in the middle of the desert highway for about an hour. It was hot. Not a single breeze...so we tried to help our driver figure out the problem....and let the girls play in the sand & pebbles on the side of the road. There wasn't much we could do!

I love that the girls found ways to have fun with rocks & empty water bottles.
I just took pictures of the silliness!

We were back on the road shortly, but driving slowly to make sure the engine didn't overheat again. We stopped again to refuel and cool off with some popsicles. The heat of the desert is no joke!

Justin found an old motorcycle cart that was calling his name.

Traveling with our little family is never without adventure!

We kept on going....and 8.5 hours later we arrived at our destination! I think next time we will take the bus?? It was an adventure for sure....but we are certainly glad to be with friends for the weekend! Here's a picture of our driver: His name is Li, but he requested that we call him "Bruce Li" (Lee). hehehe.

fun picts this spring : blooming!

2011-05-03T10:00:00.000-07:00

This post is mostly for our family (and 3 others) who crave pictures of our growing gals across the globe. They are such precious gifts, and its good to share! We miss you fam!

Lilacs are in full bloom!

aren't they amazing???

our little strategist

2011-05-01T09:17:00.000-07:00

Eden has a very strategic mind...and she loves to play games that require some planning and building too. Recently she has been playing Carcassonne with us....and WON! She was quite giddy that she could hardly contain herself. It was a moment of delight for her!

Final score: Eden won by 2!!
...and here is her beautiful winning smile!

Easter Tree : the trail to the tree...

2011-05-01T03:39:00.000-07:00

Here's some not-so-great (& belated) pictures of our Easter Tree - I found the purple pussy willow at the flower market, which worked great! We downloaded an Easter devotional from A Holy Experience...which is a free download. The girls loved tying each ornament onto the tree, and blowing out the eggs too. It was a wonderful way to bring deeper meaning to our holiday.

our first Ice Cream Cakes.

2011-04-25T03:26:00.000-07:00

Two foreign friends requested some ice cream cakes for their big 40th birthdays! We haven't attempted to make these (to sell) yet, since we aren't really set up for baking, etc. Instead we prepared the cakes at home, and frosted/decorated them ourselves - with Ice Mountain ice cream inside! These two cakes have 2 layers of cake, with a middle layer of coffee ice cream, and almond ice cream. They are frosted with whipping cream. It's not that hard to make!!

This is my friend S - who is a master baker and incredible with all desserts!
She frosted them, right inside our freezer trays! (we have tiny freezers!)

How ironic that our first two cakes are in two different languages - Papiamento and Spanish! (not Chinese, English or a Central Asian language!) I wonder what language will be next?

*the cake on the right was made without artificial colors and sweeteners, because of an allergy. It was fun to color the frosting with natural blueberries - so our friend could eat it. You learn something new everyday!

Easter egg-stravaganza 2011

2011-04-24T02:37:00.000-07:00

In Chinese we say, Fu huo jie, Kuai le!!

FU - 复 - recover, restore
HUO - 活 - life, save
JIE - 节 - holiday, festival
KUAI LE - 快乐- happy

I love the Chinese for this - it is so packed with meaning!

Not many people understand this holiday, so its fun to share the true meaning with our friends. We also enjoy some family traditions of dying eggs, egg hunts, baskets of goodies, and also an Easter Tree (I will share more later). I had done this before as a child...so it was fun to bring new meaning to this amazing holiday together.

All dressed up for an Easter brunch and Egg-hunt in the park!

The cherry-blossoms are in full bloom!!

The girls with all their loot!

This year, we celebrated with a friend who has Mexican roots - she introduced us to Confetti Eggs!! You crack a confetti-filled egg over your loved-ones head!! This was definitely a highlight.

We ended off our day with another egg-hunt @ home and yellow peeps.
What more could you ask for?

thanks again, Nana for the yummy package!!
He is risen indeed!!

bubble tea!! 珍珠奶茶 zhen zhu nai cha!!

2011-04-21T08:35:00.000-07:00

With all this warm weather and sunshine - we are getting outside almost every day to explore and play. One of our favorite little spots to visit is the neighborhood Bubble Tea* stand. We go down the stairs, out the door and 2 blocks down past the middle school....

The place is called "Nothing But Tea" and the lady who runs the shop is named Coco. She speaks a little English, and is so friendly! We love to practice our Chinese too!

Today we tried the Coconut, Strawberry and Blueberry flavors! Yum!!
If you ever have the opportunity, please try some!!

COCO: 你要点什么？ni yao dian shenme? What do you want to order?

ME: 四杯珍珠奶茶。si bei zhenzhu naicha. Four bubble teas.

COCO: 好，什么味道？hao, shenme wei dao? Ok, what flavor?

ME: 两个草莓，椰子，和兰梅。 liang ge caomei, yezi, he lanmei. Two strawberry, one coconut, and one blueberry.

COCO: 要冰的还是热的？yao bingde haishi re de? Do you want it cold or hot?

ME: 冰的。bing de. Cold.

COCO: 好。十二块。hao, shi er kuai. Ok, 12 yuan (3 yuan each!)

(puts in the tea, adds some milk, plops in the pearls, seals on the plastic lid with an automatic sealer, shakes it up and grabs a big straw)

COCO: 可以开吗？ keyi kai ma? Can I open it?

ME: 可以可以。谢谢！ keyi keyi. xie xie! Yeah. Thank you!!

This is a huge hangout spot for the middle school students, especially since her prices are so great! I love that she has a post-it board for all the students to write notes to one another, or just proclaim their deep thoughts and secrets. Justin Beiber was mentioned a few times!! I left my own message behind too.

*Bubble Tea - also called Pearl Tea 珍珠奶茶, Boba Tea or Tapioca Milk Tea came from Taiwan, and is usually made of sweet potato/tapioca-like balls, mixed with a strong tea-base and sweet fruit or milk flavoring. Sometimes it is warm, and shaken to form a foam on the top. The cup is vacuum sealed and popped with a large, fat straw. There are limitless combinations...but all are worth trying!! We are kinda hooked over here.

spring weather!!

2011-04-16T07:53:00.000-07:00

Almost overnight the weather changed to SPRING! The snow melted and we've had 50 degree weather - which is calling us outside! We've been riding bikes, wearing tank tops & flip flops and playing with friends. Here's some recent pictures of the fun....

sipping yogurt outside

fixing Syd's balance bike

some neighbor kids had baby chicks for pets (1 kuai each = 15 cents)

Syd was the brave oneSo thankful for this amazing weather and change of seasons!

my built in refrigerator.

2011-04-02T07:47:00.000-07:00

I was making Chinese Chicken Salad today, and needed to cool off the chicken before adding it to the bowl of greens. I just put it on the window sill box, next to the icicles - and voila! Chilled Chicken! Another joy of NW China winter!

spring package love

2011-03-27T09:27:00.000-07:00

oh my goodness.... could this box be filled with any more LOVE? (nope.)

over 20 packets of pesto & alfredo goodness
yellow peeps (a novelty with the girls)
Ed Emberley drawing books!
stickers galore
colored erasers for the students in our home
spring flower seed packets!
3 Pez dispensers
Easter marshmallows
a new favorite book that is changing my life
Easter egg coloring kit
Clif bars
cadbury eggs!
quality chocolate bunnies
dried fruit strips
2 Clean Start colon cleanses for the adults (not for wimps)
and some incredible Nature's Sunshine supplements!

Thank you with all our hearts for the generosity, creativity, and thoughtfulness put into this package FULL of love. We are so blessed by each item!! Receiving packages is like a ray of sunshine in the darkness.... Well, maybe that sounds extreme - but it truly encourages and brightens our MONTH! Living across the globe from our family, friends, homeland, & comforts has its challenges - but just knowing that we are on your mind & hearts makes the distance not so huge. Maybe "gift giving" (or gift-receiving) is higher on my Love Languages than I thought!! Either way, we feel extremely loved. Love you back!! xoxoxo

Now I get to go hide the goodies until April 24th.
The girls are going to flip out!!

Ice Mountain Creamery :: Partners

2011-03-25T09:16:00.000-07:00

Here's a pict of the guys at the new Factory....looking quite cheery despite all the work & efforts they put into a days work. They are pretty amazing guys - navigating the Chinese business world in three languages. Figuring out new laws each day, and doing it all with integrity, creativity & (mostly) humble hearts. I really love the one on the LEFT. :)

knitting fingers.

2011-03-22T09:12:00.000-07:00

She is learning so fast, and figuring out the IN, AROUND, THRU, OFF...
Patiently learning the intricate movement of needles and yarn.
I am so thankful for her ability to concentrate + sit and move her hands in rhythm, and for her weekly handicraft class with 6 friends & the beautiful Finnish woman who loves them so well. Thankful that I found a place to buy her yarn that is pretty cheap too. Thankful for bamboo knitting needles. Thankful for her sweet idea to make scarves for her dolls. Thankful for daughters.

book buddies

2011-03-19T07:45:00.000-07:00

I love that they read the same page at the same time.

happy birthday Aiyi!!

2011-03-19T06:31:00.000-07:00

The girls love painting birthday banners. Even when it means they all have to reach across each other and claim their various letters. They do pretty good sharing the tight space - all at once. Today is a good friends' 58th birthday.

This woman is amazing. She helps about 4 different families in their homes: cooking, cleaning and taking care of many little ones 6 days a week! She also maintains her home, with two grown kids of her own. She is our Chinese Auntie...who simply adores our kids. For our family, she watches the girls one night a week so Justin & I can go on a date, just the two of us. She is such a gift to our clan. She also teaches our girls Chinese, and plays as she goes.

Happy Birthday Aiyi - we are so glad you were born!!

so much snow!!

2011-03-18T05:36:00.000-07:00

Today after a very long and challenging day (for this momma), I quietly slipped outside to take a walk in the snow (yes, daddy came home to relieve me). There is something peaceful about falling snow, even amongst the hustle and bustle of people coming and going along the road.... I love the crunch of powder under my boots, and the snowflakes swirling about my face.

I ventured out without long johns or gloves - but it wasn't too cold. Students were trudging through the snow to catch a bus home, shop-workers were shoveling snow in front of their stalls, and cars were spinning their tires trying to make it up the hill.

I wasn't frantic though. To me, this was a taste of peace and quiet...a time to regroup and take in all the sights and smells and just simply enjoy the outdoors. I smiled and breathed deep. Isn't this lady beautiful? I buy all my fruit from her. She gives me pretty good deals when I bargain.

These are my feet. Just to prove that I was really there. And here is another one that everyone seems to be laughing about. I don't see why this is all that funny. I was so happy to be outside in the whiteness.

A dear friend of mine handmade this cowl for weather such as this! It kept me toasty and dry and very well-loved.

XingFu Lu (our road) covered in snow.

Thankful for white snow, crunching powder, swirly flakes, pink nose, seeing my warm breath, knowing my neighbors, a faithful & humble husband, talented friends, woolen cowls, icicles, shovels, fruit ladies, a full heart, and three little chickadees excited to see momma even after a 30 minute walk.

St. Patricks day!!

2011-03-17T09:12:00.000-07:00

We found new ways to celebrate St Patrick's Day this year - and just have fun with leprechauns, rainbows and pots of gold, shamrocks and potatoes! We DID actually study about the real Saint Patrick and his life! Did you know he was kidnapped by Irish raiders and forced to tend the pigs for 6 years? Talk about crazy adventure!! Later in his life - he returned to Ireland to share his life there. He is known by the shamrock - because he used it as a tool to share his faith. I love knowing the history behind our traditions & festivals....

We also had fun making shamrocks with potato prints, and eating delicious cupcakes decorated with edible rainbows. The girls also loved their green smoothies for breakfast!

Happy St. Patrick's Day from our Scotch-Irish clan!

family night

2011-03-12T09:01:00.000-08:00

We recently began a new family tradition - and the girls are loving FAMILY NIGHT! They get so excited to plan what's for dinner, some special activities - and maybe a movie on the projector/screen. We play games, play guitar, have a dance party...whatever the girls want to do....within reason of course. Lately they have wanted to make their own pizzas and watch a movie together. I love their enthusiasm for our family times - they are the perfect end to our week! ....these may morph over the years, but I really hope to instill in these girls the importance of spending quality time together....and loving people first.

being sick is no fun....

2011-03-08T08:45:00.000-08:00

...but its nice to have a buddy to cuddle with.

or maybe two buddies.

(have no fear - we are all healthy now!)

mom's hair salon

2011-03-07T08:31:00.000-08:00

first you climb onto the counter and make sure the tangles are gone.

then you put hair up, wrap in a dish towel and begin the chopping!!

thankfully the girls can last the 45 minutes it takes me to finish the job! Then you take pictures to document the happy girl with her new style! She is growing up so fast!!

that was A LOT of hair!!

things i love :: in no particular order

2011-03-01T04:05:00.000-08:00

I was inspired to write my own list, from an amazing friend named Sarah. ox.

justin. asia. eden. sydney. lemonade. guitars. my 5 parents. jason & kris. ian & arienne. my 3 nieces & 1 nephew! being an auntie. my old house on emeline avenue. hearing God's voice. falling snow. swimming. the beach. sand in my toes, but not anywhere else. waves. China open markets. quilts. anything handmade. thrift stores. books. subaru forresters. melon in summer. picnic baskets. gardening. anything with pumpkin. making bread. a good book with the girls. santa cruz, ca. learning something new. a thoughtful gift. animals: all kinds. homeschooling. art projects. walking in the creek. rainy days & umbrellas. succulent plants. etsy. the color green. jesus. sewing. chai tea with milk & honey. tickling my girls. hammocks. swing dancing. scarves & cowls. organic things. hiking. crossing the street in China. cultures. traveling. owls & acorns & clover. libraries. grass under my feet. adoption. sentimental things. the doans. writing letters. communication. my best friend. being known. hard questions. green smoothies. my new iphone. angry birds. road-trips. the sounds of nature. picking berries. dusk. dreaming together. chocolate & peanut butter. family game nights. camping outside in tents. drinking tea. old window panes. letting my creative juices flow. cloth napkins. living simply. burritos. skinny dipping. fruits of the spirit. taking a walk with my babe. expensive shoes. homemade pesto. making rag dolls. summer. bonfires on the beach. oriental rugs. legos. feeding the ducks. fresh flowers in a vase. being used by God. authenticity. new haircuts. my wedding ring. strawberries. apricots. painted toes. kings mansion. dying to self. forgiveness. spending time with other moms. the sparkle in my girls' eyes. survivor. date night. old farm houses. the flea market. the farmer's market. composting. planning parties. driving a car with kids in carseats. organizing. avocados. oceanview park. getting healthy. bookshelves. scrapbooking. playing dutch blitz. doing puzzles. sushi. the psalms. surrender. porches. closets. home birth. sand castles. popcorn. action-packed movies. the nomads. acorn slippers. bamboo. maps. photography. pigtails. kaleidoscope. lists. blogging friends. fair trade. old jeans. yurts. henna & mehndi art. newborn babies. homemade jiaozi. pique assiette. christmas ornaments. coke zero. my apron.

....there are many more things I am sure...and perhaps I will continue to add to this list as I think of new things! these are just the first ones that came to mind (which is a huge disclaimer, and again, in no particular order of love & admiration, so one day if Sydney reads this she won't feel I loved her any less than Asia or Eden since I listed her 4th). This is just fun to reminisce and think about. :) Thanks Sarah!!

two new drinks in our city

2011-02-24T07:48:00.000-08:00

Let me introduce you to some new varieties of drinks that are now available at my local XiaoMaiBu (小卖部 tiny convenient store, downstairs!): Badam Nut Drink and Victory Vitamin!

BADAM NUT DRINK: This tasty drink comes in a glass bottle, which is nice. Its very nutty in flavor, kinda like a watery almond milk - but pretty sweet. A little earthy too.

VITAMIN WATER: I am still not sure of the actual flavor or this light pink drink - but it tasted like a twist of the Vitamin Water (in the States) and a strong Lemonade. A slightly watery lemonade - with some extra vitamins to make you feel better. There are lots of flavors/colors to choose from.

Anyhow, its nice to have some new flavors to choose from!!

welcome home!!

2011-02-21T05:51:00.000-08:00

Yes!! We made it!! It feels like Christmas as the girls remember their rooms and toys and books. They are enthralled with being home again, which is so lovely. And, we are SO tired & groggy. More like exhausted. We can barely stay awake during the day, and wide-eyed at 2am. I can't seem to adjust to this new (opposite) time zone. Also, we re-inherited our orange kitty - Sushi!! Our local friend decided she couldn't take care of her anymore. That was unexpected. We also came back to a dusty apartment....in desperate need of some deep cleaning! Fun!

Eden was in heaven with Sushi back again. Even with her slight cat allergies - she wants to be holding Susu any chance she gets. I (on the other hand) am ready to find her another new home since she attacks my feet in the middle of the night, when I wish I was sleeping. Crazy cat.

The weather outside is freezing cold, and it's snowing again today. Beautiful white flakes that show the intricate designs of each flake when it lands. Huge flakes. This weather doesn't really bother me, since I love the chance to get cozy indoors, unpack, get organized, and figure out a new rhythm for life here. It takes awhile to remember how to cook from scratch again, stock my pantry, and get utilities back up and running smoothly. The dust needs wiping too. But the snow just makes it peaceful. Like I can ease back into normal life without all the rush. Just enjoy the moment and watch the flakes fall.

Off to make some hot chai with honey & milk. Home.

travels: just 36 hours. easy-peasy.

2011-02-19T03:19:00.000-08:00

After goodbyes are over...traveling isn't so bad. With more practice, it keeps getting easier. Plus - the girls each got a new carry-on, filled with their own special items for the flight(s). They were so proud (and giddy) to wheel their own stuff around the terminals.

On the first flight we even got comments from people sitting around us, that our kids were such easy-going travelers. We were so amazed ourselves! They are world travelers, so I think they are just used to long, cramped flights: not anything special we have done. But it doesn't hurt to be prepared with games, toys, snacks and surprises. This was by far, our best family traveling experience to date.

Asia was quite entertained by her new Journal (a gift) that taught her how to draw Mehndi Art. She literally drew for a hour. Lots of squiggles, curly-ques and swirly lines. I had no idea she could learn it (and love it) so fast. Thank you Dawn+Ella!

The girls also slept for a good chunk of time, sprawling wherever they could ...we all got some needed shut eye. :)

We stayed overnight in Beijing since we got in so late, and had to catch the next flight in the morning. In the morning we had the buffet breakfast - which consisted of tofu, spicy veggies, white rice, tuna dumplings and over-hard boiled eggs. We weren't so daring, but opted for toast and rice. We were all laughing when we realized there was toast, but no knives to spread the butter. The next best thing: a chopstick of course!! Yes, we are back in China!!

Here we are, waiting for our shuttle to the airport (for flight #2) - bright and early. I was scolded a few times for letting the girls take off their bulky winter attire. Not enough layers. :) Yes, we are back in China!!

In the terminal, we used our new-to-us iphone to call uncle Jason on skype for the first time overseas!! It worked!! Now I just need to find a way to unlock it so I can use it in China!!

And since I know you were dying to see what kinds of meals are served on flights in our beloved country....I took a picture for ya. They were out of the "beef dish" so we got some sort of seafood+veggie stir fry with rice, as well as red bean paste in a bun, plain yogurt, melon, and some gelatinous meat dish over cold noodles. Let me just say, I am so glad we brought our own snacks. Justin was the only daring one. :)

But we finally made it!! ...all 8 pieces of luggage, all our layers and happy to be HOME! Now if only jet-lag were this easy!! :)

goodbye america

2011-02-16T10:49:00.000-08:00

the view from the house we stayed @ in Santa Cruz for 6 weeks!

Yes, that is the ocean!

Yup, that time has come. We are mostly packed, doing last minute errands, cleaning, and spending every waking moment with loved ones...before we board that huge airplane and fly across the Pacific. It doesn't feel completely real yet, but I can tell that my emotions are often guarded, or the other extreme: RAW! I am tired of saying goodbye. I think we have said more 'goodbyes' than any normal person has done in their lifetime...and I'm young!! This is most likely the hardest part of living overseas. I love my life, but it has its hard parts too. Just keeping it real!

the view of the terraced garden! = so peaceful!

I find myself taking lots of pictures, wanting to capture those last moments just sitting around, being together. I definitely feel surrounded by incredible love and encouragement and support. Then my mind is racing with thoughts of items I still haven't purchased to stock up on... but I need to just relax. It will all come together with time to spare, right?? Being with people is most important. :)

So many people have gone out of their way for us this trip! Gift cards, food, gas money, a beautiful home, a minivan to borrow, hand-me-downs, homemade gifts!, chiropractic visits - just to mention a few! Thank you to a community of friends that are really family. I will miss you dear friends: for seeking to know me deeply, asking hard questions, and taking the time to be real. I will miss you too, California: your fresh ocean air, healthy foods, variety, green open spaces, sandy beach, and so much more. But I shall see you ALL again in a few years. (sniff sniff)

day o' love 2011

2011-02-13T09:10:00.000-08:00

For the love of all holidays and celebration: we (as in Ali, the momma) tend to go all out: for the memories, for the traditions, for the pure joy of celebration. The girls love it too. We made 21 Valentines for other kids. We drew, cut, wrote loving notes, and drew pictures all morning. It was fun! We chose our favorite party clothes in all shades of pink...for a sweet Valentine Party with friends.

The girls loved every moment. The strawberries, the cupcakes, the crafts & fruit loop necklaces, the book exchange, the Valentine mailboxes....every detail was so perfectly planned.

Thank you Jana (and Matt for planning the man-date) for such a special day!! As we get nearer to our departure, we try to bask in each moment with friends - not wanting to miss anything. Only 5 days before we depart....and we are so FULL with love for our amazing friends. We miss you already.

(and now we must start packing!!)

bowling with buddies

2011-02-11T04:58:00.000-08:00

I like bowling mostly for the shoes. :)

.....AND it was fun to take the girls to the Boardwalk Bowl where I have bowled many a game over the years. The girls used the bumper's which makes it more encouraging. They all enjoyed rolling their huge balls down the alley, except E. She was not happy about it one bit. Bowling might not be her favorite sport, but everything changes so fast when you are five. At least she tried!!

Even with all their effort and nifty bumpers....the littlest one won!! Here's the proof:

When we first started bowling - A said, "I'm really good at bowling cuz I've done it since I was three." :) Actually, the first time she ever bowled....she was three. I don't think she has done it since....well, maybe once. Time flies!!

the dentist!!

2011-02-10T06:57:00.000-08:00

Why do dental cleanings get put off till the last minute?? Ahhh...

Thankfully, we have an incredible dentist who understands our time constraints and is so helpful to get all three girls in together. They all get a bit nervous but our dentist is so patient, calm and talkative with the girls as they sit in her chair. She explains everything before she does it, which really helps! We are very thankful!

Sydney had a small cavity in one of her teeth that had chipped last year. It was so small that the dentist drilled it out without any Novocaine, and filled it so fast. Sydney was holding her breath and squeezing daddy's hand...but she stayed so still & calm during the entire thing. It was amazing to see such a little girl being so brave in that huge chair, with equipment being shoved into her tiny mouth. She's a trooper!

All the girls got to take home new toothbrushes, toothpaste, and floss of course! Ever since the visit, Asia reminds us ALL to floss almost daily. She is our little rule-keeper and reminder of all things important. She is wonderful. They all are...and now they have clean-cavity-free teeth for at least 2 years. :)

We love you Dr. Torres!!

big slides @ Oceanview Park!!

2011-02-09T19:34:00.000-08:00

Yes....that is little Sydney up at the top. I was so nervous she would hit the bumps and fly off. But she made it safe. She must have gone down about 20 times....even with some wax paper to speed up the ride.

She loved it.
As did Eden, Asia, mommy, daddy & Jamma.
It was just too fun to miss!

These slides have been here since I was little, maybe even older than me?? This is one of our favorite parks to play at - so peaceful with shade, trees to climb, swings, wonderful climbing structures...and grass all around. Maybe next visit we will make a goal to visit every park in Santa Cruz, and choose our top five. I am pretty sure this would make the cut!!

petroglyph

2011-02-08T18:29:00.000-08:00

The girls loved spending half a day at this lovely art studio downtown, where you can paint pottery any way you please. It was actually very therapeutic...sitting quietly with our paints, creating masterpieces. Another peaceful day in Santa Cruz!!

Syd painted a butterfly for Jamma

Asia painted a small heart box for Nana

Eden painted a shark with jewelry for Poppa.

I loved watching the girls create their own treasures...carefully choosing paints, brushes, and learning to be steady & consistent as they had to paint 3 coats! This takes a long attention span for most 4 year olds!! Also - Tuesdays are half off for all studio fees!!

I painted a bright bowl for a birthday gift.

Now our pieces are off to be glazed & fired in the kiln @ 1800 degrees!
...and everything is more fun when Jamma is around!!

thankful for friends.

2011-02-07T17:57:00.000-08:00

Too many to count : we are so blessed.

taste-testing

2011-02-04T17:49:00.000-08:00

Any trip to California is not complete until you have visited Marianne's Ice Cream at least 5 times, right?? Well, we have lots of reasons to continue our "market research" for the best ice cream in the world. :) J also got to meet Sam, the owner of Marianne's - and ask him lots of questions and take a guided tour of his production site. It was so amazing to sit in the presence of someone who has mastered so many flavors!! Still, my trusty favorite will always be chocolate & peanut butter.

nanpop

2011-02-03T07:05:00.000-08:00

Nana + Poppa = Nanpop. We weren't able to take another trip to visit their home in the hills, so they came to us!! We tried to fill our 48 hours to the brim with leisurely fun, playing together outside, and laughing as much as possible. It worked!!

We spent one day @ Wilder Ranch climbing trees, fences & tractors and also petting the Clydesdale horses. It was such a gorgeous day....the weather was perfect.

We then went north near a small town called Costanoa, to play at the beach...and the beach was empty, just waiting to be discovered. We were surprised to discover 2 beached elephant seals, resting from the winter waves. It was incredible (one was injured and hidden in a rocky cove, while the other one was shy & sleepy up the creek)! We definitely kept our distance.

...waves were waiting to be jumped.

...rocks were waiting to be appreciated.

...cliffs were waiting to be scaled.

...and Mr. Elephant seal was sleepy.

The next day we all went to Roaring Camp for a picnic. It was so peaceful...just the rustling wind in the trees, and the occasional chug & whistle of the train. Its good to find times of pure quiet. I know I will miss this when I am back in noisy China. We fed the ducks, played tether ball (Nana has major skills!) and ate delicious picnicking foods in the sunshine. E&A loved playing with their new walkie-talkies, like they were spies. It was just plain FUN.

Thanks for making the drive here to spend with us!! We all had such a wonderful time together, and we cherish you!! Maybe our next big reunion can be on this side of the globe??

family photos by my lovely friend

2011-01-31T04:09:00.000-08:00

It's been awhile since we've taken some family pictures...and my amazing friend Julie has the eye & skill to capture anyone!! She is so gifted and really loves what she does!! We so appreciate her taking the time to fit us into her schedule, and capture our family for posterity.

It is so rare to capture all five of us smiling at the same time, in the same direction, etc. But somehow, Julie did it - even each of their unique personalities too!! It also helped that she is so playful & energetic with the girls, and that she knows them well. We went to Wilder Ranch - a favorite spot of ours. Here's a few of our favorites:

One of the best parts of taking picts with Julie, is that her kids came along for the fun - and they really helped to get the girls laughing and acting normal. It might help that Asia & Bella are also such buddies!

Thank you Julie!! ...for your sweet friendship & your generous heart. You have really amazed us with your skills girl!! These pictures mean the world to us!! Love you!! xoxox

yippee for FREE events with friends!

2011-01-28T23:01:00.000-08:00

I have been working on this post for WAY too long, and even made a fun video of pictures, since I have so many that I want to post. But for some reason, blogger will not upload my little montage of picts. Oh well!!

Here is one glorious day - filled with lots of friends, and lots of FREE things! Two of my favorite things!! ....thanks to a wonderful homeschool blog that I follow - I found out about a FREE day at Happy Hollow Park & Zoo. I somehow registered & got 5 free tickets within the 24 hour window! I remember going here as a little girl, but it has been renovated/upgraded and is so beautiful! We made a day of the trip to San Jose with wonderful friends & Jamma too!!

The kids had so much fun on the carousel, the roller coaster, the petting zoo and climbing & sliding everywhere!! Sydney wanted to pet every goat and give them all hugs. E&S wanted to ride the roller coaster over & over & over. Their squeals of joy were priceless, and they were so brave!!

There were tons of climbing structures & slides galore. The kids had endless energy to spend chasing each other around the park. I got a work out trying to keep up with them!!

Also, there were lots of kiddo rides - cars, bugs, swings & scooter races that made the excitement even greater. How many kids can you squish into this tiny coupe??

Landon & Asia-bug!!We had such a special day with these beloved friends!!

And yet, our day was still going....we had planned to meet more friends at the San Jose Museum of Art for a FREE tour of the gallery! (and dinner @ The Spaghetti Factory) The girls had been asking to see their special buddies (N&A) for awhile!
The Art gallery was so quiet and calm, and there were so many exhibits to amaze us & learn from. We really loved the Kids Art Packets to inspire creativity! We just plopped ourselves down to admire some art, and write poetry about our favorite paintings. I was inspired by the girls' insights and ability to appreciate art in their own unique way! I am in awe of the special friends that we are surrounded by, and so very thankful. (notice the large Trojan Horse in the background - Asia was so excited to see a small replica made from paper!)

We adore these sweet & spunky red-heads!!
We love you B-fam!!

@ the beach in winter!?!

2011-01-27T22:41:00.000-08:00

This California weather is so beautiful! We are taking every opportunity to soak up the sun & nature while we have the chance. Winter weather in NW China right now is way below zero, with huge snowfall, ice sculptures downtown, and multiple layers of long johns. Should I feel guilty?? ...um.....nah!!

Daddy went surfing today and us girls played in the sand while trying to spy him on the waves.

We mostly made castles and buried little sisters.

Relaxing in this natural beauty and fresh air brings healing & peace!
...but I will be ready for my China winter soon enough!!

this one wants to surf....

2011-01-25T22:28:00.000-08:00

We took a walk on the cliffs tonight...
We brought a yummy snack dinner and watched the waves & surfers.
We watched the sun sink into a sea of gold and pink.

And she told me she really wants to surf.

I can't wait for that day, Miss E!!

tooth #6

2011-01-24T19:53:00.000-08:00

Miss A has lost yet another tooth, leaving 4 gummy holes in her smile! She loves to show off her toothless grin, and still find ways to eat carrots. This one came out while eating a granola bar...and no, she does not believe in the tooth fairy anymore....but she is helping to keep the secret going for her sisters. We love your beautiful smile Asia!!

we miss you daddy: 15 days/15 photos!

2011-01-21T22:47:00.000-08:00

Daddy has been gone on a business trip for the last 15 days. This is the longest we have all been in two different places and we've missed him like crazy! We sent him a picture/highlight of each day that he was gone, just to include him in our daily joy. The girls had so much fun deciding when/where to take a picture for daddy, and they smiled extra big since they knew he would smiling be on the other end. This was such a FUN project for all of us!

Day one : driftwood castles on the beach!

Day two : pajama party & crafts

Day three : sand & pine cone picnic with friends
Day four : found a nest! ...picnic outside in the garden!

Day five : two-for-Tuesday @ froyo in SC! (the girls were so excited!)

Day six : fun night with little buddies - Sydney really wanted daddy to see her skinned knee.

Day seven : special breakfast together....

Day eight : park adventures with sweet friends

Day nine : do you remember this place??
This is where I walked down the aisle on our wedding day 9+ years ago!

Day ten : sandy girls! yes, Asia is loving the sand and she is holding part of a dead crab!
Day eleven : a pile of kiddos - the McCarlson's!
Day twelve : peaceful walks with Nana
Day thirteen : Poppa on the puppets = 6 delighted girls!

Day fourteen : bouncing in Poppa's truck

Day fifteen : hugs at the airport (poor daddy is so tired from travel) ...but mommy is so overjoyed!!

special highlights to remember...

2011-01-06T22:34:00.000-08:00

sweet reunions with old buddies:

another hole in her mouth...three to be exact!

a first theater visit : three giddy girls!

family reunion!! three generations! 23 in all!!

enjoying the sunshine

2011-01-03T22:08:00.000-08:00

The weather here has been glorious! You just can't stay indoors. Daddy also leaves in 6 days...so we fill our days to the brim with family, friends, sunshine and adventure. Our thankfulness overflows....

sand in our toes feels normal now.

the driftwood is waiting for imaginative hands to create new designs...

burritos on the cliffs with Poppy!

walking along west cliff with the girls

Thank you Jesus for this life you have given me!!
(and for my hometown!)

M&J - the first wedding of 2011!!

2011-01-01T08:49:00.000-08:00

What a wonderful way to start off the new year!! Our sweet J (along with her entire family and friends) planned the most unique and beautiful New Year wedding with her beau M. Every detail was hand-made with their personalities in mind: coffee house, antique touches, Italian cookies, art & music, poetry readings, and beauty everywhere! We are so glad we got to be here in town for this amazing day!

Another amazing detail: brother & family were skyped in from Japan!! We love you J&M, and we love your entire fam!!

pictures taken by Julie Cahill Photography - she's amazing!!

rushing to beat the storm

2010-12-31T07:48:00.000-08:00

After an emotional & teary goodbye in Virginia, we flew back to Denver for our final bit of road-tripping: three days of driving to get back to Cali for a wonderful friends' wedding! This part of our trip was very unplanned and more based on weather. Denver was beautiful and sunny - but a storm was predicted to hit the night we arrived. We knew we did not want to get stuck in snow & blizzardy weather.....so we trudged on!!!

We can honestly give most of the credit to Mr. Caramel Frappuccino who gave us the motivation to push onward. Days 34-36 were full of driving, navigating, lots of music, and SNOW!

We drove over 8 hours the first day - trying to get out of Colorado so that we might avoid the snowfall. Unfortunately....the snow began coming down, covering our world in a blanket of white. We had to drive extra slow since our van was not equipped for ice & snow. We finally made it to Green River, Utah : to a dingy trucker hotel, complete with cockroaches and beds from the 70's. The one advantage: it was cheap!! We sleep great anywhere, maybe due to the fact that we are used to hard Chinese beds. Yea!!

The next morning, we were greeted by an icy green van! We kept going....though it was very slow with icy roads, and frozen wiper fluid. We had to stop every so often to clean the windows!

I think we were in the car about 12 hours this day, slowly making it out of the snowstorm. J did amazing with all the snow & weather. It would have stressed me out to drive in this storm, and for SO long! We kept trudging on....even thru Las Vegas!! We had stayed in Vegas before, and didn't feel like doing it again. We made it to Barstow, CA for our final night in a hotel!! We were SO ready to settle down somewhere and stretch our legs!

The girls have done incredibly well this trip! They are so witty & hilarious, which keeps our car-conversation quite fun. Its tough to sit in one place for so long, but they were troopers!!

Our final day on the road (Day #36) was only 7 hours!! We were greeted by wonderful friends and a final 2010 dazzling sunset on December 31st. This is the reason to race back to California!!

I can't believe we are surrounded by such beauty!! Only 6 precious weeks left in America...

Virginia part 5 : our final days...

2010-12-29T23:43:00.000-08:00

Our final days in Virginia consisted of soaking up as much time together as possible! We played games, worked on puzzles, went on a double date (!), and took the girls out for "cousin haircuts"!!

Here are some cute before & after picts:

We went to a kid-haircut spot in the mall (thanks to NanPop) and each of the girls were lined up in a perfect line. Asia & Syd got their hair chopped, and Eden just wanted a trim. Cousin Jordan also got a big chop too!! I am a huge fan of short hair for the girls - so easy & carefree! Eden had so much hair that its better long...and so luxurious! She is also the ONE that allows me to braid and put up in all kinds of ways. Thank you E!!

It was a momentous occasion!

I also spent heaps of time snuggling my nieces, and staying up way too late. We wanted to squeeze in all the time possible before we said goodbye. Its so hard not knowing when we will see each other again. In the next few months J&K will be moving to Armenia for two whole years for his job with USAID. They will be closer geographically to us....but its hard to coordinate visits, with families, jobs, holidays, etc. This was one of the hardest goodbyes ever.

We had such a full, yet very relaxing trip to see some of my favorite people on this planet. It took me FIVE blog posts to summarize our two week visit!! Miss you guys so much already!!

Christmas magic in Virginia : part 4

2010-12-26T00:36:00.000-08:00

I love holidays! I love making them special and going ALL OUT with every single detail.... and Christmas has always held a special place in my heart. This year (2010) will be hard to beat as it was so filled to the brim with childlike wonder, beauty, creativity and joyous moments being together as a family.

It was SO incredible to be reunited with our family (and some of our closest friends) J&K, as well as their two beautiful girls - our nieces! Being an Auntie has made my heart swell with even more love than I thought possible! ...which makes these visits so sweet!!

Christmas felt like it lasted over the course of three days, all just flowing together like one big dream. The house was toasty and filled with laughter, yummy smells wafting from the kitchen, and constant restfulness. It was such a beautiful time of living together in one big house, serving each other and having great conversations throughout. I felt so encouraged and challenged and loved.

Christmas Eve was so dreamy too: crafting, wrapping, baking, and lounging around in comfy clothes. I even got to watch ELF - for the first time!! Close to midnight - Nana & Poppa arrived to surprise the little ones on Christmas day! It was such a celebration! And even though the Christmas tree was overflowing with sparkly, tempting presents, the kids were more enthralled with spending time with their fam! It was really sweet to see their excitement be focused in the right place. Of course, when the time came for presents to be passed out and ripped open - there wasn't any complaints! We were so generously blessed this year.... and it was fun to give some creative things as well!!

I finally made my niece Jordan her very own rag doll. It was so fun to make with her around, as she got to see it come together, and help choose the colors for her eyes, etc. I think it made her love her doll even more!

Doesn't this picture prove her love??

We also debuted our 2nd annual family-movie : "The Christmas Story"!! Everyone played a part as we reenacted the birth of Jesus, with lots of laughter! Jason would be mad if I posted it on youtube, but let me assure you: it was good!! ....complete with outtakes and musical credits.

A huge highlight for me was waking up the next morning to find Asia reading her new Book in the bathroom on the floor. She loves her new bible, and is so enthralled with the book of Mark right now. I am beyond amazed that she is reading this on her own. Of course I invited her into our warm bed to share the joy!!

We love you JKJ&M - thanks for making Christmas so amazing this year!!

“What greater thing is there for human souls than to feel that they are joined for life…to be with each other in silent unspeakable memories.”

~ George Eliot ~

Virginia : part 3 : Washington DC!!!

2010-12-23T19:40:00.000-08:00

A huge highlight of our trip was a jam-packed day in the city, touring all the major sites and visiting two of the larger Smithsonian museums (Natural History & American History = both free!). The girls loved touring the exhibits and learning about animals, dinosaurs, cave people, hands-on science experiments, and some exciting cultural events in American history! I loved seeing the actual Star Spangled Banner that inspired the National Anthem, and seeing Julia Child's kitchen!!!

Asia loved ALL the animal exhibits.
Here are some ancient cave wall replicas. In front of a Tyrannosaurus Rex skull - replica! One section of Julia Child's kitchen - I was in awe!!
Asia's top highlight: seeing the actual red shoes that Dorothy wore in Wizard of Oz!!My highlight: being with my nieces & girls together!!

It was very cold that day - but we still got some pictures in front of the Capital Building, and drove by many of the larger monuments too. There are so many other places that we could have gone to see - but this was perfect for our family!

The Capital building is behind us here, but mysteriously isn't showing up!Thanks J&K for being such great tour guides!!

Virginia - part 2

2010-12-21T10:50:00.000-08:00

Here are some highlights of our trip to Virginia! (warning: long post & lots of picts)

Our Vehicle : a trusty Dodge Conversion Van - lent to us by some incredible friends who live in Tennessee! They drove up, dropped off the van - and let us use it for 2 weeks!! They are so generous & thoughtful! We nicknamed it "The Ark" since we could fit two of everything/everyone inside!! The cousins loved getting to ride together everywhere we went!!

Christmas Tree : We attempted to cut down a Christmas tree - but ended up with a cheaper one @ Lowe's. They were all discounted by the time we got one anyhow!! Even so...the kids had a great time hiking in the snowy tree farm!

This one makes me smile: SISTERS!!What's really funny - is that we searched all over Fairfax, Virginia for a LIVE Christmas tree - and then it took us FOUR days before we attempted to decorate it. Maybe we have just been a little preoccupied with all the fun going on around us!! :) ...or tired from staying up until midnight!!

Christmas Tree Decorating : The girls decorated by branch & height. By looking at the end product, you can see how each lower branch was loaded down with ornaments, while the top was pretty sparse! They had a blast, that's for sure!! We also made some new ornaments this year too.

David & Cyndi : Justin's Georgia-cousins were in DC for business - and they extended their trip to come visit for 2 extra days! I (Ali) have never met them in our 9+ years of marriage - so this was extra special! They are SO fun!! The girls loved them so much too, and we enjoyed every moment with them!

All 11 of us got to visit the Air & Space Museum in Fairfax - and see hundreds of REAL vintage airplanes, fighter jets and even space shuttles!! Cousin David has served in the marines, and he was full of tour-guide-knowledge, that helped us appreciate the museum even more.

This is sad: but my only group picture is blurry. Still, we are pretty cute!

We enjoyed lots of deep conversations, yummy soup for dinner, and even a big 1000 piece puzzle!! I really love this family, can you tell??

oopsie.

2010-12-20T21:07:00.000-08:00

BACK IN CHINA: We got an email today that made us cringe.
There is a LOT of snow and ice where we live right now. It's pretty much in the constant negative degree range for the majority of our winter.

And today, a garbage truck skidded on the ICE down the hill and straight into our NEW Ice Cream delivery van. Yup...couldn't stop if they wanted to. Here is the evidence and damage:

Crazy, huh??

We should have parked in a different spot. But thankfully, the garbage truck is insured by the city - and they are paying for all the repairs!! Isn't that incredible?? We are also SO very thankful for our amazing business partners who are taking care of all the details while we are away. We love them so much, and its less nerve-wracking knowing they are taking care of everything so well.

magical moments in Virginia : part 1

2010-12-17T18:51:00.000-08:00

We have been awaiting this part of our trip for way too long!!! : Days 20-33!! We flew from Denver, CO to Fairfax, VA - where we got to spend 14 joyous days with Justin's brother & fam: Jason & Krissy! AND they have two amazing girls - Jordana & Madison, who are such beauties!! It's the best feeling to be surrounded by family at Christmastime AND have five cousins bounding through the house with their joyous giggles....well, Madison just rolled around - but our 2 weeks felt like we were magically suspended in time.

Sydney & Jordan are only 5 months apart - so they were quite inseparable the entire two weeks! They both wanted the same toys, the same food, the same hair, and on and on. It was pretty hilarious! Jordan did pretty amazing as her entire world was invaded by older cousins.... she is so sweet, thoughtful & full of LOVE! Isn't she adorable??

Madison is such a JOY!! She loved to be around the action, and she was just learning to scoot around (in a slight army crawl). It was amazing to finally meet her (7 months old now) and bond with my NEW precious niece!! I really love the stage she is in too - so snuggly & little!

I attempted to make up for lost time by taking 509 pictures to document this biennial event! Here is one of the good ones!! ...with all five cousins smiling at the same time!! Jordan & Eden look like twins!!

Here is another sweet one in front of the fireplace....
Their hair just blends together....so many cute girls!!

Taking a walk outside in the fresh snow...

Five cousins....all lined up!! (I love Madi's grin!)

Our time in Virginia was so full & sweet. We had so many fun adventures - this is only Part 1!!!

Loveliness.

2010-12-14T00:38:00.000-08:00

Day# 17-19: Loveland is so lovely. Two nights jam-packed with old-school buddies and a house FULL of kiddos! We played outside, made delicious food, slumber-partied, had lots of deep talks, chased chickens and raked leaves. It was so wonderful to share time with people who have kindred hearts, and who don't mind a house full of little girls: seven girls to be exact, ages 2-8!! They all got along amazingly!!

Ruby & Sydney - gathering chicken eggs!
Eden, Bella, Asia & Syd - relaxing in the hammock
Asia, Emma, Bella & Eden - cleaning the yard
Sydney, Asia, Bella & Eden - snuggling with Ginger the kitty
sweet goodbyes - Asia & Emma!
(this reminds me of two bosom friends about 15 years ago)We love you Sailer clan....and we adore your hearts!
Now off to Virginia & Washington DC for Christmas with fam!

Colorado!!

2010-12-12T23:13:00.000-08:00

On Day #6 we drove thru "4 Corners" - the only spot in America where 4 states meet (Colorado, Arizona, Utah & New Mexico). It was just a tourist spot - with a marker & flags, surrounded by rural desert: BUT the incredible opportunity to stand in four States at the same time and pose for a picture. :) They girls thought it was so funny, and they would keep yelling "Hi Arizona!!" (etc) across the line.

Day# 6-8: Durango! We got to stay with another incredible family of friends - and enjoy lots of conversations & laughter. We explored the city, went thrifting, visited the famous Silverton Railroad, and spent quality time with our friends. They are so down-to-earth; truly living their lives to help others. We always wish our visits could be longer....maybe we will just have to move here someday! The kids also loved bonding with old buddies...these two are only weeks apart in age, and they giggled quite a bit.

Day# 9-16: CSprings!! We spent a week reconnecting with our incredible friends in this sprawling city, and enjoyed lots of yummy food, game nights, songs, parades & refreshing conversations! We also got to meet baby Ezra for the first time, and celebrate some birthdays in style!! It was the first time we began to really relax and decompress from our 2+ years living abroad. We needed some time to recharge! We love you & miss you CS family!!

Asia, Sydney & baby Ezra

The McDoans Its always so hard to leave....

ears pierced!!

2010-12-11T08:40:00.000-08:00

Eden & Sydney really wanted to get their ears pierced!! ....so, we've been waiting for the right moment: we chose to commemorate aunt Jenny's birthday by going to the mall for the ceremonial piercing. Getting your ears pierced feels like such a rite of passage for little girls, at least it was for me! I remember waiting until I was 13 to have mine pierced, but I didn't feel like implementing any time limit for our girls....they had been anticipating earrings for awhile now!

Sydney jumped into the chair first. She was so brave. She loved getting to hold the black teddy bear during the whole event! Here she is (my big four year old) pre-piercing:

getting her hair clipped back in anticipation

two seconds later!!!

Next came Eden (5.5 yrs) - who was very excited too!!
She wanted to let her sister go first, so she could decide if it would hurt too much. I guess she was convinced since Sydney didn't even wince. I was more queasy than anyone!!

Getting both ears pierced at the same time is the way to go. This bear has gotten many tight hugs!
Happy Birthday AJ!! Thanks for sharing your day with us!!

Sydney turns FOUR!!

2010-12-05T10:09:00.000-08:00

Sydney has been anticipating her birthday for months! She thought that we were coming to America FOR her birthday...so every day since we have been here, she keeps asking when her birthday will be. Waiting 18 days has been tough!

Technically, she has already had a few celebrations along the way - but we like to stretch out the party as long as we can. She woke up to lots of balloons and streamers - with our tradition of hanging a big #4 from the ceiling. She was quite giddy throughout the entire day.

We can't believe that our youngest girlie is already FOUR! We love her joy and imagination and love of life. She is constantly talking or singing or making some sort of humming noise. She is very verbal!! She loves to laugh, and constantly asks to be tickled. She is such a goofball, and she brings such joy to our family.

For her birthday we had some friends over.....

Shared green sprinkle cupcakes....

...with cute friends....

...and celebrated our FOUR year old!! Wow! That has gone SO fast!!
We love you with all our hearts Sydney Grace!!

slight detour?? The Grand Canyon!!

2010-11-30T09:18:00.000-08:00

Day #5: After Phoenix, the plan was to drive to Albuquerque and stay with more family. They (our extended family) were still in Phoenix....so we had an extra day to spend along the way somewhere!! The map was wide open!! We opted to detour north - and visit The Grand Canyon!! Gotta love flexibility & spontaneity!! Only Justin had been there before, so it was new for most of us! What a breath-taking place to visit!We spent most of that day walking trails, rock climbing, taking the tram, and lingering at different viewpoints along the way....what a brilliant canvas of color and shadows!! We also got to see some elk, deer and wildlife along the trails. It was so amazing!

It was a cold & windy winter day - but so beautiful!!

We rode the tram all the way to the end of the line - where we sipped hot chocolate to stay warm. It was so peaceful - since there weren't many people at all.

We even got to watch the sun set, turning the canyon all shades of gold & orange! Here is our clan - after a long day of road-trip and hiking around the trails of the Grand Canyon! Wow - what an amazing sight to witness!!

....now we drive on towards Durango, Colorado!!

Road-Trip 2010

2010-11-29T21:15:00.000-08:00

The green minivan is loaded up.
Gas tank is full & windows freshly squeegeed.
Kids are strapped securely into their car seats.
Snacks & other various items are readily available for diversions.
Music is at my fingertips.
Off we go for 36 days of road-tripping across 7 states with our clan of five!
We haven't booked a single hotel...but we are feeling spontaneous.

Pray we stay safe and don't go stir-crazy!!

First stop (day 1): Santa Ana!!! ....for a 15 hour whirlwind visit with our beloved friends!
The kids loved playing with buddies Lily & Samuel. Syd & Sam were fast friends. They both like goggles and shopping carts, so it was pretty simple.

On the playground there was a slight traffic jam on the slide:

The visit is never complete without a group photo!! (the dad's were so patient)

Hello's & goodbyes within such a short time are always hard! We love you SoCalDoans!!
We consoled ourselves by finding the nearest In N Out Burger. Yup - still tastes amazing!

Next stop (Day 2): San Diego!!
Justin got to share with about 100 elementary aged kids about our lives in China. They were very attentive & loved that we make ice cream! They asked great questions and learned about life on the other side of the globe. We also got to see wonderful friends in the area and connect even more. We love this place!!

That same afternoon we drove onward to Phoenix, Arizona to visit with family for 2 nights (day 3&4). Justin's grandparents are 96 & 97 years old - still loving life and full of joy! We are so thankful that we got to see them again and hear more of their memories! Grandpa was so happy to see the girls!! (Grandma was recovering from a stroke, but still so very cheery)

We also got to visit with uncle Eddie & aunt KC who were in town for Thanksgiving! Uncle Eddie put the girls to work gardening outside, while aunt KC made us a gourmet meal! The girls each earned $1.00 for pulling weeds and filling the garbage bin with debris. They were so excited/motivated to earn some money! ...and play with uncle Eddie and the branches.

No visit is complete without the final group photo:
(if only Sydney weren't picking her nose)

We also got to visit aunt Gloreen who has been in the hospital after a major surgery and some new complications. She was so precious & sweet - even though she could barely speak. We did all the talking, praying and rubbing of her feet. It was a wonderful to see her again and just sit with her. She even had gifts waiting for the girls: games & artsy stuff! She is so thoughtful & generous. Please pray** for her - her organs are currently failing and she is battling for her life. **Updated Dec 30th, 2010 - Aunt Gloreen went home to heaven. She will be greatly missed by so many!!

Overall, the first 4 days of Road-Trip 2010 have been incredible. We are encouraged, challenged, nostalgic, brimming with love for our family, and eager to see what adventure lies ahead.
Stay tuned.....

Thanksgiving

2010-11-25T14:36:00.000-08:00

The weather here is unbelievable.
There is beauty everywhere!
We are so very thankful.....

This morning we ventured down to the ocean to play in the sand. It has been over 2 years since we have touched American sand. This time the girls (finally) weren't afraid of sand in their toes. :) We all had so much fun soaking up the beauty....

Oh! ...and Nana & Poppa came too! (more beauty!)

We did make it home in time to finish final touches on our delicious dinner....and enjoy family time with Jamma & Poppy too. The girls aren't too fond of the typical turkey & fixings....since its not a common food in our neck of the woods. They DID like cranberry sauce though.

What a full day with countless reasons to be thankful!!

pre-birthday park party!!

2010-11-24T14:33:00.000-08:00

Our littlest munchkin is turning FOUR in 2 weeks! We decided to throw a last-minute party for Santa Cruz family & friends - since will be traveling cross-country the day after Thanksgiving! Huge thanks to Jill & Laura (and Facebook) for the motivation & help, and to my momma for making heaps of cupcakes! Here are some highlights of our day at the park!!

The girls loved making friends (again) with old pals...and playing all over the park! Thanks to everyone who joined the festivities to celebrate little Sydney. She felt very loved!

SoCal Doans + China McNabbs

Sam + Emory + Lily + Eden
(these three girls were instant buddies)

more cute kids!

Holtzclaws + McNabbs

We love you Sydney!!
Thanks to all our friends for coming to our spontaneous celebration @ the park!

seeing family & friends:: week #1

2010-11-24T13:54:00.000-08:00

: This is THE BEST part of visiting our homeland! We can't get enough time with people!! Our first few days were spent living with the Holtzclaw clan in Aptos, CA. We cherish this family! Their entire family has encouraged us beyond belief. Their kids are hilarious, and were so entertaining! I especially loved reconnecting with my best buddy, Laura and getting to know their newest member : Hana!

Then we moved to Santa Cruz, where we stayed with my mom! The girls adore her - and loved spending time with her! She took the entire week off so we could have more quality time together. We ate extra good this week!

We also took beautiful walks thru the neighborhood, exploring the beauty of Santa Cruz.

Asia got to see some of her ol' buddies: Corban & Abby!
We have missed you friends!

We also met my dad for breakfast and fed the seagulls at the wharf, which was a highlight for the girls. The weather has been amazing!

We love you, family & friends!

fire-station field trip!

2010-11-19T13:38:00.000-08:00

My buddy Laura organized a field trip for a bunch of home schoolers to visit the Santa Cruz fire station! We got a personal tour of the huge red engine, the fire-house and lots of personal time with Fireman Dan, Fireman Mike and their trusty Chief. It was incredible to hear about their lives as firemen! They really sacrifice to serve the community.

I think I asked the more questions than any of the kids though. :)

During their presentation, there was an emergency call that the firemen had to run out for! It was exciting to see them rush around and hear the loud siren on the engine. Thankfully, it wasn't a serious call - and they came back pretty quickly to give us an even longer tour of their living quarters. The kids had a great time too!

We love you Station #1 Firefighters!

first week in America after 2+ years

2010-11-18T22:56:00.000-08:00

(well, only 2+ years for the girls & Justin - Ali came 15 months ago for a wedding!)

We have landed in America friends!! The flight was one of the worst I can remember, but I choose to forget those details and rejoice in the comforts of our homeland. The air is so fresh and the sky is so spacious and blue. Cars drive so fast, and the roads are wide and marked so clearly. FOOD!! Food is so tasty and there is variety everywhere! We have especially missed you Avocado & Salmon.

Can I just tell you how much we love car seats? These things are for more than just safety, friends! I (the momma) can actually sit in a car and look at the scenery with my arms free. I like the freedom for a bit, and the peace of mind knowing the girls are strapped in safely (especially when these crazy Americans drive so speedily)!

Also, water pressure is a given. I just love that small fact.
We also LOVE the sprawling green grass!!...that you can walk on!!
America, we have missed you!

the Great Wall

2010-11-15T22:10:00.000-08:00

We are off!! Our little family is taking a winter break - traveling to America for 3 months to be with family & friends over the holidays! We are SO excited! We are all packed...and ready for our 16 hours of flight time and reunion on American soil. But first, we have a short layover in Beijing - and an opportunity to see one of China's most famous wonders - The Great Wall!! (Cháng Chéng 长城)

We had the entire day to explore! We chose the Mutianyu (south east) section of the Wall, which sounded more remote, mountainous & surrounded by forest, so that we could walk this section with the kids. To get up to the Wall you could hike uphill, or take a cable car (which sounded appealing with three littles).

It was a very cold day, but we came prepared! The girls loved the cable car ride, and were great hikers/joggers all along the steep, winding, stone walkways. Sydney was the youngest walking visitor we saw all day!! We definitely took snack breaks, photo breaks, potty breaks and pep-talk breaks....but the girls made it!!
The Great Wall is compared to a great dragon winding its way over the mountains. It was definitely impressive!!

Some of the stairs were half as tall as Sydney. She was such a trooper!

We must have hiked thru at least 7-9 of these parapets (watchtowers/barracks) which were used as signal towers when enemies were in sight.

It was breath taking to see up-close this massive structure that was built so long ago. The visit was incredible!!

Now for the next flight across the Pacific Ocean. America, here we come!!

a special gift

2010-11-06T02:22:00.000-07:00

Asia just finished a project she has been working on for a few weeks now, and she wanted to give it away to her buddy Andrew. That is why she chose this great brown yarn - since he likes darker colors. I had to take a picture of this since she is giving it away...like right now!! It's so wonderful to watch her create and share. She is always thinking of her friends, and I know she is going to miss them while we travel. She is such a compassionate & loving little girl, and very attached to her loved ones. I love that she is growing in generosity too.

She also attended her first "group sleepover" at her Finnish friends' homo where they meet for a crafty class each week. Our friend is so brave & energetic to take on four little girls for the night! She had them over for dinner, crafts, a movie, dessert & the sleepover, plus morning activities too. Asia had such a great time with her friends - and we are so thankful for these blessings in her life. It was truly international - Korean, Canadian, Finnish and American, plus 4 beloved baby-dolls. :)

our first bit of winter....

2010-11-04T06:23:00.000-07:00

This is actually our 2nd snow of the year - but the first one that really stuck. It will melt away soon, but managed to last for about a week. Winter is right around the corner....and we are always bundled up when we go out now. We still haven't worn long-johns yet, but we are always asked by our neighbors if we are cold! The first snow is always exciting - wherever you live! Lots of kids run around throwing bits of powder & ice chunks, frolicking in the mounds of snow piled up on the hillsides. I love the crisp air and wearing a warm scarf.

Our apartment is warming up a little - the radiators are warm but not much. We have a few radiator leaks which need repair, though I am not sure it can be done before we leave. I will just put buckets under the valve and hope they hold. :) We have a friend who will check on them for us too, and water my 4 plants.

We won't experience much of the winter this year - since we are traveling to America shortly! We are very excited to see family & friends, and get a break from the cold for a bit. I love California winters! We will be busy packing and saying our goodbyes the next few days....and then boarding an airplane for Beautiful-Country (America in Chinese is literally Mei 美 = beautiful, Guo 国 = country)! Hopefully we can cross paths with many of you along the way!

Goodbye winter in Urumqi! Have fun without us!! We will miss you!

cupcake joy.

2010-10-31T01:02:00.000-07:00

I cannot take credit for these amazingly decorated cupcakes - but I got to HELP! One of my closest friends here is a baker - and she is incredibly gifted with all things sweet! She was the inspiration behind our Cupcake Walk 2010.

This is her hobby! ...and I got to learn by helping frost and create the details of all 48 cupcakes! I just followed her lead, and learned from her! It was so fun! We made pumpkins, owls, bats & bugs. All the ideas came from this book. Aren't they incredible? I especially loved the owls - and the intricacy of all the bugs. Everything is edible!!

The owls & bugs took the most time!
(did you notice the edges are rolled in sugar too?)

The kids were awestruck by these beauties. YUM!!

Harvest Carnival 2010

2010-10-31T00:22:00.000-07:00

Since last years' costume party was such a success - lots of families & kids were requesting another party this year! It has now become an Annual Event! Somehow we managed to pull off another extravaganza of epic proportions.....spanning TWO apartments - right down the hall from each other. We had similar games, but opted to have a Cupcake Walk instead of a Pinata this year! The kids (and parents) loved it! We also had a goldfish pond and a Photo booth!!

The girls dressed up as a Shepherdess (Asia), Tinkerbell (Eden), and a Ballerina (Syd). Justin found a Chinese Street-sweeper uniform, and I tye-dyed my Hippi shirt. The kids loved dressing up and playing games with all their friends! ...and eating the special cupcakes too.

Here is Sydney with her friend, dressed as a pink cowgirl.

Eden & Syd with their friend, a Pink Princess.

Asia, the Shepherdess with Davey Crocket & Maid Marion! So historical!

Happy Harvest to one and all!

worms. not a fun topic.

2010-10-28T00:00:00.000-07:00

This month 4/5ths of our family caught WORMS. Just typing that word makes me cringe. I am told its a common ailment around here - but annoying to say the least. The fact that it spread so quickly between the girls; we had to quarantine our family & apartment quickly. We pulled E&S out of preschool - which is where I assume they caught the nasty little parasite. We all took our allotted doses of Albendazole, and waited 10 days! It was a challenge, since we didn't feel sick - but wanted to keep the parasite from spreading. The girls were troopers though!

We also began a strict hygiene regimen - scrubbing hands, omitting all sugar from our diets, bleaching all surfaces, washing toys, and buying new bedding! I was a laundry fiend. Amazingly, I survived Worm Infestation 2010, which is miraculous! Let's hope this is not an annual recurring event.

p.s. The girls are out of preschool for this season. :)